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 1)  DON'T BE SHITTY TO OTHER MEMBERS. 

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No shaming, judging, name-calling, rudeness, disrespect, aggression, intentional mis-gendering or bullying. Zero toleration for violence.

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 2)  NO ACCUSATIONS. 

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No attacks, gossip, or slander against anyone, member or not.

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 3)  NO ADS. 

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No follower fishing, fundraising, or links.

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 4)  DON'T SHARE ANYONE'S SHIT. 

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All posts, pictures, comments, etc. are considered *private* and not to be shared to anyone outside of the group. 

 

 5)  DON'T SHARE ANYTHING YOU'RE NOT READY TO. 

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All members should be aware of the risks of posting personal info on social media before sharing. This is not therapy or a Dr.'s office; your information cannot be legally protected here.

 6)  NO DISCRIMINATION. 

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No racism, sexism, ageism, ableism, classism, bigotry or prejudice of any kind.
 
 7)  NO BREAKING PLATFORM RULES. 

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Whether it's Facebook, Reddit, or whatever. 

 8)  NO PERVING: THIS IS NOT A DATING APP! 

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No sexualizing members, no soliciting of a romantic or sexual nature, and no inappropriately intimate content.
 
 9)  NO INNAPROPRIATE LAUGH REACTS. 

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Laughing at others/passive aggressive bullying is not allowed.
 
 10)  NO CHANGING THE TOPIC. 

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Respect the OP and the purpose for their post.
 

 11)  NO SOCIAL JUSTICE BOMBS. 

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No inflammatory posts on racial, political, or cultural topics. They are important, but this is not the space for them.

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 12)  NO PROSELYTIZING. 

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No member is allowed to force their beliefs, values, morals, ideas, religion or anything else onto other members.

 

 13)  NO INFANTILIZING OF OTHER MEMBERS. 

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This includes using terms such as "darling" or "sweetheart". Unless you know them personally, it's not appropriate. 

 

 14)  NO UNSOLICITED ADVICE. 

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No Lecturing, correcting, grandstanding, etc. If someone does not ask for your opinion, perspective or knowledge base, do not assume it is welcome.

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 15)  DON'T ASSUME IT WAS AN ATTACK. 

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Before you take offense at a comment, post or idea, consider that we are a Global Community with different religions, worldviews, and languages. That is to be expected, respected and appreciated here. You can agree to disagree.

 

 16)  NO POSTS REQUIRING A CONTENT WARNING RN. 

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Any post going into detail about violence, sex, poverty, death, loss, kink/BDSM, mental illness, addiction, politics, illness,  trauma, Covid, personal crisis, etc. would require a content warning. When we have more trained moderators, we will add this level of content. For now, keep it short, simple, and vague.

 

 17)  DON'T CURSE AT SOMEONE. 

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"What the actual fuck happened to my goals for the day?"  Cool. "You're a fucking asshole!" NOT cool.

 18)  NO DISRESPECT OF THE ADMIN TEAM. 

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You will be immediately removed from the group.